9 Years a Situationship: Why I Mistook Breadcrumbs for Love
Alicia explores how she unlearned survival patterns and finally made space for a partner who shows up consistently and intentionally.
How vulnerability can look: Oversharing & Trauma dumping
We’ve blurred the line between sharing to connect and sharing to unload. The internet made vulnerability content, and now we’re all feeling it. It’s time to bring meaning—and boundaries—back to what we share.
How to Balance Friendships, Finances and Finding Yourself
In this Ask Lo column, a reader asks how to balance money, friendships, & the desire to level up without feeling like she’s doing too much. Here’s my take.
5 Powerful Summer Habits That Are Protecting My Peace
Summer is for soft resets, not survival mode. Here are the grounding habits I’m keeping in rotation—from unplugging my phone on Fridays to choosing mocktails over mindless mimosas.
Black Girl in Paris: Fashion, Food & Vibes You Don’t Want to Miss
Come to Paris with me—the shopping was dangerously elite, and the vibes were très main character. From luxury shopping to dreamy boat rides, this vlog captures my takeover of the City of Light.
This Book About Black Love, Trauma, and Second Chances Hit Hard
Black love, deep wounds, and second chances—Seven Days in June is the kind of book that hit Alicia right in the chest.
How Cutting Off My Family Helped Me Reclaim My Peace
Alicia’s sharing why it’s important to detach & build a TRUE community.
Sip & Create: My Amazing Custom Tea Blending Journey in Alameda
Alicia & her friends took a custom tea blending class & she’s sharing the details.
Landing & Launching: Your Guide to Thriving Solo in a New City
Alicia’s giving you tips on how to settle into a new city as a newbie who knows no one.
So you think you can dance? Pole Dancing Showcase
In her Level 2 pole dance showcase, set to FKA Twigs, Alicia shows off more than just spins and tricks.