At 7am PST, I got the call I’d been promising her I’d hold her hand through. I wasn’t there. Grief is insane like that — it doesn’t follow the plans you whispered about in confidence.
You’re running laps while people sit still and call it love. On one-sided relationships, outgrowing your hometown, and the cost of building your own life.
We’re over drinking alcohol. We’re doing shrooms now.. well, kinda.
Nobody sits you down and explains what first-generation money actually feels like. The earning part, sure. Everything that comes after it, you figure out alone.
Every year. Every single year. The one season where doing well financially still somehow manages to feel like a punishment.
There’s no blueprint for being first. No one to call and ask if you’re doing it right. You just keep going and hope the path you’re making is worth following.
A slow burn used to sound romantic. Then I realized I’d been conditioned to read low effort as mystery and intensity as love. That’s a whole thing to unpack.
Forgiveness is not the same as access. I need everyone to understand that.
Alicia’s sharing a few tips that can help high-earning women date better.
Alicia is a bit fed up with everyone who is suddenly autistic. Let’s talk about what it really is.
In 2026, let’s learn how to be better communicators to and with one another.